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| Episode | Name | Labels | Duration |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Kit Rackley | Genderfluid, trans-feminine, non-binary, demigirl | 46 min |
| 2 | Alys Wilfred Earl (Fred) | Trans-masculine, non-binary, genderfluid | 37 min |
| 3 | Harri Elouise Nellar | Trans-feminine, non-binary | 57 min |
| 4 | Edalia Day | Transgender, non-binary | 49 min |
| 5 | Sarah Corke | Intersex, non-binary | 27 min |
| 6 | Sophia Wise One | Gender-transcendent | 47 min |
| 7 | Ange de Lumiere | Parent of a transgender child | 37 min |
| 9 | Alys Wilfred Earl (Fred) #2 | Trans-masculine, non-binary, genderfluid | 32 min |
| 10 | Bonnie Bakeneko | Trans-masculine, non-binary, graysexual | 46 min |
| 11 | Charlie Caine | Gay trans man | 34 min |
| 12 | Kit Rackley #2 | Non-binary, trans-feminine, demigirl, genderfluid | 52 min |
| 13 | Theo Will (TW) McKenna | Genderfluid, non-binary, asexual, grayromantic lesbian | 44 min |
| 14 | Allan D. Hunter | Genderqueer, gender invert | 39 min |
| 15 | Kyl Myers | Genderqueer woman, gender-creative parent | 37 min |
| 16 | Katy Jon Went | Transgender, non-binary, asexual | 1 hr 12 min |
| 17 | Sam Bettens | Transgender man | 44 min |
| 18 | Sophie James | Transsexual, transvestite | 23 min |
| 19 | ALLYSHIP | How to be a better gender-diverse ally | 53 min |
| 20 | Ela Xora | Transgender woman, anti Intersex Genital Mutilation activist | 53 min |
| 21 | Felix | Non-binary, transgender, queer | 17 min |
| 22 | Hannah Watson | Transgender | 37 min |
| 23 | Robin Rice | Parent of a transgender adult | 21 min |
| 24 | Alf Ravn | Agender, transgender, non-binary | 42 min |
| 25 | REFLECTIONS (1) | Discoveries so far | 1 hr 6 min |
| 26 | Angus Brown (Annie) | Transgender woman, butch lesbian | 33 min |
| 27 | Ray | Binary transgender man, FTM, gay | 31 min |
| 28 | Rachel Lawson | No gender labels, thank you very much | 45 min |
| 29 | Joe | Femme boy, non-binary, trans | 1 hr |
| 30 | Cassie Brighter | Latina woman of trans experience | 1 hr 4 min |
| 31 | CN Lester | Trans | 37 min |
| 32 | Cameron | Female but trans, trans-feminine | 31 min |
| 33 | Rachel Lange | Non-binary, queer, autistic | 35 min |
| 34 | Cassian Lodge | Non-binary, agender | 1 hr 6 min |
| 35 | Jareth Nebula | Transgender, agenderflux, demiboy, alien | 43 min |
| 36 | Yas Necati | Non-binary | 32 min |
| 37 | Charlie Orriss | Transgender FTM | 24 min |
| 38 | Devi Irony | Non-binary, dominant | 49 min |
| 39 | Genevieve | Trans non-binary, genderqueer | 33 min |
| 40 | Bella Cascarini | Trans woman | 52 min |
| 41 | Harris Eddie Hill | Trans non-binary, agender, trans-masculine | 49 min |
| 42 | Evey Winters | Transgender, transsexual woman | 55 min |
| 43 | Sally Goldner AM | Bi/pan trans introvert HSP woman | 47 min |
| 44 | Tara Dax | Non-binary | 45 min |
| 46 | Charlize Jamieson | Transgender woman | 54 min |
| 47 | Helen Belcher | Woman with a trans history | 55 min |
| 48 | Cara Wilde | Parent of a transgender teen | 46 min |
| 49 | HIGHER EDUCATION | Being LGBTQIA+ in Higher Education (HE) | 1 hr 2 min |
| 50 | REFLECTIONS (2) | Discoveries so far | 1 hr 16 min |
| 51 | J Laurence Sarno | Trans man | 1 hr 4 min |
| 52 | Dean Rasmussen | Transgender, trans man, trans-masculine, genderqueer, non-binary, pansexual | 43 min |
| 53 | Lor | Intersex, non-binary, demiboy, bigender | 55 min |
| 54 | Lynn Keiser | Transgender woman | 55 min |
| 55 | Beverly Little Thunder | Two-Spirit Lakota woman | 44 min |
| 56 | Juno Roche | Trans & queer | 1 hr 4 min |
| 57 | Jin Wicked | Agender, non-binary, autistic | 1 hr 24 min |
| 58 | Greyson | Trans man, xenogender (wolfgender), furry | 50 min |
| 59 | Victor Martinez | Non-binary, transgender, pansexual, panromantic | 59 min |
| 60 | Emme Porter DeWitt | Agender [transgender, nonbinary], queer [demisexual+] | 56 min |
| 61 | Dorothy 'Thyo' Pierre-Louis | Non-binary, trans-masculine, bigender, toric, graysexual | 46 min |
| 62 | Jacob Profitt | Non-binary, gay, drag queen | 36 min |
| 63 | Jen Hartmann | Non-binary, bigender | 41 min |
| 64 | Brian Belovitch | Cis-gay male of trans experience | 59 min |
| 65 | LISTENER QUESTIONS (1) | Terminology explained | 23 min |
| 66 | Anna Sansom | Genderqueer, gender-responsive, woman, queer dyke | 53 min |
| 67 | Leonie Dawson | Non-binary | 57 min |
| 68 | Esther Loewen | Transgender woman | 54 min |
| 69 | Zelda | Intersex, trans-adjacent, disabled | 57 min |
| 70 | Rev. Rowan Bombadil | Genderqueer shapeshifter & sex witch | 1 h 23 min |
| 71 | Renée Yoxon | Trans, non-binary, genderqueer, maverique | 45 min |
| 72 | Talea Boelsems | Agender, metagender | 1 h 9 min |
| 73 | Paige Loewen | Partner of a transgender woman | 51 min |
| 74 | A Clear Perspective on gender | A channeled message from Oron and Medha | 35 min |
| 75 | REFLECTIONS (3) | Discoveries so far | 1 h 8 min |
| 76 | Skin | Queer | 46 min |
| 77 | Jenn | Genderfree, autistic, fat | 56 min |
| 78 | Claire Prosho | Transgender woman, bisexual, ADHD | 1 h 23 min |
| 79 | Christine Tokley | Trans woman, non-conforming, disabled, neurodivergent | 1 h 34 min |
| 80 | Anne Hodder-Shipp | Queer femme, neurodivergent, ADHD (agender, non-binary, demigirl) | 56 min |
| 81 | Fleassy Malay | Queer, gender-diverse, neurodiverse, genderfluid woman | 57 min |
| 82 | Angela Locashio | Autistic, queer, genderqueer woman | 49 min |
| 83 | Lola Phoenix | Agender, non-binary, queer | 1 h 27 min |
| 85 | Victor Martinez #2 | Transgender, non-binary, pansexual, neurodiverse, ADHD | 1 hr |
| 86 | Izzy Kershaw | Transgender woman, bisexual, ADHD | 40 min |
| 87 | Brianne Leeson | Autigender, bisexual, polyamorous, demi-romantic | 56 min |
| 88 | Lux | Queer, genderfluid, polygender, non-conforming man | 55 min |
| 89 | Cleo Madeleine | Queer, trans, woman | 1 h 15 min |
| 90 | NINETY SHADES OF GENDER | Taking a break | 11 min |
| 91 | Harris Eddie Hill #2 | Agender, non-binary, trans (with a dash of ‘boy’) | 1 h 6 min |
| 92 | Finley Areset Brand | Transgender, non-binary, agender, demigirl [autigender] | 56 min |
| 93 | Fabian Webb Brown | Trans(gender) man | 47 min |
| 94 | Rachel Dover | Transgender female | 1 h 21 min |
| 95 | Joris Grey | Trans, trans man, queer | 46 min |
| 96 | Chris Talbot-Heindl | Transgender, non-binary, asexual, panromantic | 49 min |
| 97 | Kate Brookes | Parent of a transgender child | 49 min |
| 98 | Ely Percy | Queer, agender, neurodivergent (brain injury) | 45 min |
| 99 | Tash Corbin | Neurodivergent, non-binary, genderfluid woman, queer | 46 min |
Claire is a transgender woman. We also talk about the lack of female role models in the 70s, trying to reconcile the expected side and the authentic side of us, the entanglement of gender, mental health and neurodivergence, feeling like yourself for the first time, reframing gendered activities, Identifying as vs identifying with, gender alignment rather than transition, and having more stories to tell. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Jenn is genderfree, and she also gave us the labels autistic and fat. We also talk about choosing your own gender badges, the absurdity of assigned gender roles, being conscious of gender-neutral language, how autism in women is underdiagnosed, the limited choices when it comes to clothes, the balance of body neutrality, the various struggles fat people face, and putting the rainbow first rather than it being an afterthought. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Skin is a queer person. We talk about stepping stones to new language, the obsession with beauty in the gay community, breaking gender roles, given names and designing your own sense of self, a cultural sense of identity, expanding on feminism, marriage and motherhood, chosen family and learning how to love each other, staying open and giving people a chance to change their minds, and how we need to join forces and stop fighting each other. [Transcript coming soon.]
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In this third Reflections episode, Katy interviews Esther as she reflects on further conversations she’s had with gender-diverse folks, what she’s learned about gender, as well as her own journey and how she and the podcast have evolved. We also talk about imposter syndrome, intuition and following the flow, prioritising self-care, expanding on pronouns, improvising and thinking on the spot, reclaiming labels, coming out of the spiritual closet, how the lines between being on the outside and being on the inside are blurring, and that being an ally benefits us all; not just those we are being allies for. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Medha is a direct voice channel for Oron. Oron start by talking about what it takes for Medha to allow this energy to come through, and then about expansion and going beyond right and wrong, external and internal division, how truth lies on a spectrum, reclaiming your sense of self-worth, power versus force, coming into inner harmony, what self-love really is, and returning to wholeness. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Paige is married to a transgender woman, who came out to her in October 2020. They’ve been married for 16 years and have two children. We also talk about being married to a troubled person, becoming more bold and growing into your skin, learning to communicate our needs, the freedom in speaking your truth, going through your own journeys together, that it’s ok to not put a label on yourself, and how we may find ourselves in one closet or another. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Talea is agender and metagender. We get philosophical and dig deeper into gender identity, and we talk about the challenges with finding language for something just beyond our grasp, nature vs nurture and what is innate in our identity, and peeling away layers and finding nothing. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Renée is non-binary trans. They also identify as maverique and back in the day, genderqueer. We also talk about being who you are right now, bridging the trans and cis experience, how ‘passing’ is morally neutral, internal vs societal perception of gender, simultaneously upholding and tearing down gender binaries, and how the voice is more nurture than nature. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Rowan is a genderqueer shapeshifter and sex witch. We also talk about deconstructing boxes and binaries, the link between gender, sex and magic, reclaiming the body and revealing more of ourselves, roleplay vs shapeshifting, multiplicity and spanning the gender spectrum, transformation through intention, and celebrating the sacred in ourselves. This episode finishes with a special solstice meditation. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Zelda is intersex and disabled, and refers to herself as trans-adjacent. We also talk about using fun vs boring as decision-making criteria as opposed to male vs female, having a gender identity as fluid as a body identity, knowing the science versus living the science, giving hope by being yourself, being a bridge between dualities, lucky genetic quirks, and being a special case. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Esther is a transgender woman. We also talk about how coming out is an ongoing process, questions to ask yourself on the gender journey, finding hope in spirituality after trauma, grieving the loss of vocation, taking a leap of faith, embracing how god made us, integrating and honouring the old self, and entering the next chapter in life with dignity and grace. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Leonie is non-binary. We also talk about honouring the land we inhabit, the freedom that came from adding a ‘they’ pronoun while having a ‘she’ experience, being non-conforming in business, the importance of having open and honest money conversations, knowing who you are inside and standing for what you believe in, kicking the social media habit, and smashing the patriarchy by being more of yourself. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Anna’s pronouns are she/her. She experiences herself as genderqueer and feels herself to be gender-responsive. We also talk about the energetic space between people, being responsive vs being reactive, how boxes can be constricting as well as expansive, playing with gender and sexuality, reclaiming the word ‘dyke’, self-healing through sexual experiences, liberating ourselves and writing our own story, pursuing desire, and why it’s more than ok to want more out of life. [Transcript coming soon.]
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This episode is a slightly different one again; the first of a Listener Questions series. I’m answering a question (or rather, responding to a request) from one of our listeners, Connie, who said “I would love to hear a podcast on the definition of terms used on the podcasts.” So here it is! [Transcript coming soon.]
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Brian identifies as a cis-gay male of trans experience. We talk about being different and growing up in the 60s and 70s, looking for validation, living a fantasy life, performing the role of perfect woman, dealing with judgement, how everyone’s journey is unique, finding a different way to be comfortable, and going full circle and reaching a new destination. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Jen is non-binary and also identifies as bigender. We also talk about growing up with a very gendered language, being expected to fit into cultural and gendered stereotypes, disrupting the fashion industry and the future of innovation, how clothes are an integral part of gender expression, navigating entrepreneurship and the challenges that come with doing your own thing, surrendering to divine timing, and that one size does not fit all. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Jacob identifies as a gay non-binary person. We also talk about the freedom that comes with going to university, societal conditioning around masculine and feminine binaries, exploring gender identity through drag, being non-binary in education, feeling attracted to male presenting people as opposed to masculinity, and being inspired by a younger generation. [Transcript available.]
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Dorothy Pierre-Louis – nickname Thyo (pronounced like Theo) – is non-binary and also uses the labels bigender and trans-masculine, as well as toric and graysexual. We also talk about discovering identities beyond the binary, having the language to describe how you feel, experiencing attraction to attributes like softer and firmer rather than gender, being on the asexual spectrum as a raunchy person, aesthetic stereotypes and how they can vary by culture or country, and the challenges that arise when trying to communicate who you are to the outside world. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Emme is agender and also identifies as transgender, non-binary, queer and demisexual. We also talk about how we all have our own unique flavour of humanity, making sense of attractions, the importance of emotional connection, building your own blueprint for relationships, the possibilities in the term queer, being a solo advocate, how parents can build a healthy relationship with their gender-expansive kids, and getting rid of the boxes altogether. [Transcript coming soon.]
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Victor is non-binary and transgender, as well as pansexual and panromantic. We also talk about identifying vs being, the freedom in expressing yourself, that clothes have no gender, connection to culture, having an awareness of your own mental health, processing out loud, and how gender expression is for yourself rather than others. [Transcript coming soon.]
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